amoSoma psychosomatic therapy offers ....
Sexological consultation
A sexology consultation at amosoma can be composed of both conversation sessions (possibly online) and body therapy treatments. Can be about sexual issues, dysfunctions that you would like to work with.
When we experience challenges in our sexuality or sex life. It is often the challenge that is a messenger from our body that something fundamental is out of balance. These imbalances are expressed in one of our most intimate spaces - our sexuality.
I work from a holistic view of the body. I work with the intention of resolving the root cause of the dysfunction and not just relieving or remedying symptoms briefly. But creating a lasting change.
Vaginism & Vulvodynia
In both conditions, the woman experiences pain and intense involuntary tension in her genitals and pelvic floor when touched or penetrated. These dysfunctions can be very disabling for a woman. The cause is due to an unconscious need for control. The cause can be found in early experiences in life, either as physical or psychological abuse.
Loss of libido or ability to orgasm
Premature ejaculation is a very common challenge for many men. It can have many different causes, ranging from chronic diseases, medications, lifestyle, physical and psychological trauma and stress. It can take courage to seek help for this type of challenge. If you experience morning erections, the cause of erection problems is to be found in the psyche and not a physical problem.
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation is a very common challenge for many men. It can have many different causes, ranging from chronic diseases, medications, lifestyle, physical and psychological trauma and stress. It can take courage to seek help for this type of challenge. If you experience morning erections, the cause of erection problems is to be found in the psyche and not a physical problem.
Premature or delayed ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is also a very common challenge for men. It requires body awareness to be able to control your ejaculation. You can train to hold back your ejaculation and at the same time also be aware of whether you can generally smoke in a performance anxiety hole. I can guide you with various techniques and tools. More rare is late or no ejaculation, also called anorgasmia. The challenges can be due to more complex issues. Most clinical therapists have very limited treatment options, but over the years I have gained great experience and success in guiding my clients through a process that solves their challenges with their ejaculation. Most often, the therapy process also requires a dive into early attachment and self-esteem in my processes to create balance around one's ejaculation
De armouring
Physical and psychological trauma can cause the body to form a protective "armor". This happens as an unconscious muscular defense to shield against emotional pain and often creates physical stiffness.
De armouring is a psychosomatic therapeutic practice that supports the release of these muscle patterns. The muscular patterns can block sensitivity, feeling and vitality.
The method works gently with areas of chronic tension or numbness to support the body in letting go of stored emotions and trauma.
When the body releases its unconscious tensions, space is created for greater body awareness. This opens up for deeper emotional processing and a deeper connection with the body.
The purpose of dearming is to improve energy flow, increase body awareness, reduce pain and strengthen the connection to both oneself and others.
Dearming uses touch, breath, sound and movement to support the natural life energy. The method combines deep pressure on specific points with breath work, sound and conscious movement, allowing the body to soften and release its defenses.
A trauma-informed approach emphasizes safety and respect. It often uses soft touch and clear boundaries to avoid re-traumatization, as opposed to more intense or forced methods.
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I am one of the few body therapist who specialize in the male prostate. The prostate is a central part of male general and sexual health, and plays many important physiological roles. For many men, focused prostate work can offer a range of benefits.
Possible therapeutic effects include:
• Supporting healthy blood circulation
• Helping the body clear congestion in the prostate
• Supporting overall prostate health
• Expanding sexual repertoire through prostate stimulation
• Relieving challenges with erections
• Easing ejaculation difficulties
Many men develop prostate changes with age, and most will at some point face challenges with erections or ejaculation. Many of my clients have already been assessed by a urological clinic without finding the answers they hoped for.
At amoSoma we work to bridge physiological understanding with emotional awareness and a more holistic view of male sexuality and his prostate. We explore how the body, the nervous system and intimacy influence each other, and how a more connected approach can support sexual wellbeing and healing.
Prostate healing
Prostate 1:1 session course at amosoma
The course consists of 6 sessions in total and costs 900 euro.
- 50 min online session about the intention and purpose of the course
- 2 hour introductory body therapy session
- 2 hour in-depth body therapy session
- 50 min online session
- 2 hour final body therapy session
- 50 min online integration session
There can be many different intentions for wanting to do a prostate course.
Prostate healing and massage online course
Together with my partner Jasper van Ruth I have developed the educational platform The Prostatic Portal. We provide workshops and you can also take an online course in holistic prostate massage, for those who want to explore this for themselves in a private setting with a partner. The course is in English
Pregnancy & birth
I want to empower women through their birth journey. I believe that every birth story is unique and valuable, whether it has been marked by birth trauma or by euphoria. At 'amosoma' my focus is to promote healing and empowerment for all women giving birth.
My intention is to create a safe space where women can share their birth stories, find support and process their own and their child's birth story.
I offer
- A therapeutic approach to your own birth story and how it has shaped you as a person and what traces it has left
- Birth maturation treatment
- Postpartum ritual and healing
- Rebozo
Teaching
I offer various workshops and act as a guest lecturer at other people's educations.
In addition to my prostate work, I also teach moving meditation practices and couples courses.
I am a guest lecturer at
- The Gaia Method led by Susanne Roursgaard
- Tantra facilitator training by Swami Anahata
- Mens Mastery
If you are curious to hear more about what I teach, you are welcome to send me an email.
Practical
All sessions are individually costumized
The session itself always begins with a short conversation with an elaboration of intention, purpose and boundaries.
The bodywork sessions itself takes place on a mattress on the floor. After the session, integration time is prioritized.
All clients are welcome. I offer sessions for all genders and orientations. Sessions are adapted to your needs and within your perception of gender and sexuality.
The vast majority of my sessions last 2 hours. For longer courses, shorter sessions can be individually
agreed. Most often there are 2-3 weeks between sessions. It is difficult to give an estimate of how many sessions a course ideally consists of, but most people get by with 3 sessions if you are dedicated to working with various exercises between sessions.
Guidelines
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The session is customized individually.
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Before a session starts, your boundaries are clearly outlined, honoured and respected at all times.
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The session will include a short verbal consultation, bodywork and final integration time.
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I have a duty of confidentiality.
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I am dressed throughout the session. I use my hands, arms and legs during the treatment.
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The session never includes sexual services such as intercourse, exchange of body fluids, kisses, etc.
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The session is paid on arrival either on paypal, mobile pay or cash.
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If you cancel within 24 hours before your session, you must pay a 50% cancellation fee.
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Previous cancellations are free.
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Please arrive freshly wash and clean.
I do not offer Tantra massage
Although I often teach in tantric settings, I do not offer tantric massage. I guide my clients in releasing blockages that may prevent them from feeling more pleasure and generally being able to feel their sexual energy.
I don't give happy endings
I dedicated to work with men to gain more control over their ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is a very common challenge. During my sessions, we create a framework together where we avoid the man from ejaculating.
